It's a little depressing. I recognize this now; I read about it on Meghan Murphy's website some months back. I'm not South Korean, so maybe I can't say, but supposedly the culture is very misogynist and patriarchal and I don't know that practicing the 4Bs will change that much.
Instead of being further antagonistic to the other sex, why can't we learn how to get along with, love with, and work with each other? It'll take some change and some accommodation on both sides. I get why men feel like they're under attack and I get why some women are just fed up. Evolution evolved us to depend on others and to unite with the opposite sex to make babies (and yes I know we don't HAVE to do that, I didn't, and gay people don't do the opposite sex...with eight billion people on the planet, who gives a crap?)
I'd like to see a time again when men were sexy and that wasn't just what they looked like; it's what they *were* like. Men aren't sexy anymore. They're just kind of....there.
So we’ll argued. And I know that forcing bullies works. I have done this with a number of bullies in my life, including an abusive husband. They always back down when they don’t get the submission they want. They don’t want their weaknesses exposed. They will simply move on to the next victim. We have to stop providing them with victims.
Awesome observation - that they don't want their weaknesses exposed, and we shouldn't give them the submission they want. Let's stop feeding the victim machine!
4b, for everyone.
What? Not sure what you mean by 4b?
https://wildkats.org/2024/04/13/4b-movement-no-to-men-till-respect-for-women/
It's a little depressing. I recognize this now; I read about it on Meghan Murphy's website some months back. I'm not South Korean, so maybe I can't say, but supposedly the culture is very misogynist and patriarchal and I don't know that practicing the 4Bs will change that much.
Instead of being further antagonistic to the other sex, why can't we learn how to get along with, love with, and work with each other? It'll take some change and some accommodation on both sides. I get why men feel like they're under attack and I get why some women are just fed up. Evolution evolved us to depend on others and to unite with the opposite sex to make babies (and yes I know we don't HAVE to do that, I didn't, and gay people don't do the opposite sex...with eight billion people on the planet, who gives a crap?)
I'd like to see a time again when men were sexy and that wasn't just what they looked like; it's what they *were* like. Men aren't sexy anymore. They're just kind of....there.
So we’ll argued. And I know that forcing bullies works. I have done this with a number of bullies in my life, including an abusive husband. They always back down when they don’t get the submission they want. They don’t want their weaknesses exposed. They will simply move on to the next victim. We have to stop providing them with victims.
Awesome observation - that they don't want their weaknesses exposed, and we shouldn't give them the submission they want. Let's stop feeding the victim machine!