'Grow Some Labia'? WTF does that even mean?!?

When I'm not helping women learn to Just Say No to abusive relationships, I melt snowflakes here in the UnWoke Zone.

Grow Some Labia? WTF does that even mean?

When we want men to ‘man up’ we urge them to ‘grow a pair’ or ‘grow some balls’. Women can’t grow balls, but our labia is what would have become our scrotum if we’d been born male. So if you can’t grow some balls, grow some labia!

I encourage everyone to grow whatever they need to take back their power. Speak out! Speak up! Don’t be the victim. Big girls don’t blame The Patriarchy. White skin ≠ white supremacy. Take back your power from racist antiracists, misogynist and misandrist feminists, homophobic LGBTQ, and don’t be afraid to state the scientifically defensible: Men are men, women are women, transwomen are transwomen, and transmen are transmen. Men are not women or vice versa. We’re human beings, not clownfish.

Women particularly need to Grow Some Labia and avoid, leave, or no longer tolerate abusive relationships. I write about that a lot. No one should ever tolerate abuse. (That includes men in abusive relationships!) The future is yours. And ours.

I’ve never been abused by a partner because I don’t allow it.

Grow Some Labia encourages us to speak truth to and challenge unlawful, self-appointed authority and political extremism. This includes the less ‘marginalized’ than advertised. Here there be facts, science, history, evidence, nuance, and, to put it in the immortal words of Dusty Springfield, looking at both sides now.

At Grow Some Labia, I speak truth to the less-marginalized-than-advertised. I melt snowflakes. Join me and subscribe now!